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I finally picked up our DSLR this weekend after a long hiatus of not carrying it around.  E has finally reached a point where she does not require an enormous pile of crap to travel, which makes taking a large camera along a little easier.  An unintended result of using the DSLR was that I forgot about my phone.  Since I wasn’t using it to take photographs, I also spent far less time fiddling with Instagram and other apps.*  It was really nice to take a break – and have to wait until I got home to see what the pictures looked like (isn’t it funny that a DSLR now constitutes “waiting” whereas film was the long process just a few years ago?).  Anyway, camera choice is not the point of this post, but time and waiting is.

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It was hot in NYC this weekend – so much so that many of the parks turned on the sprinkler water, marking Memorial Day weekend as the first few water-filled days of the summer season.  E had a ball and so did we, yet by Monday it was clear that she was working on something.

Yesterday afternoon, after a full morning of water and sun with a friend, she opted to stay inside, playing contentedly by herself with a tea set and some seashells.  I could tell that one of the reasons she did not want to go outside was that she was working on a skill – she was so serious and quiet. When not playing on her own she sat on the top of the couch looking outside, content, but focused.  At one point I looked at her as she sat there, so still, the afternoon sun hitting her crazy corkscrew curls, and saw an intensity in her face that will likely be there throughout her life.  While she is certainly a free spirit who does her own thing – and often in totally different ways than anyone else around her – she also has this amazing ability to tackle a goal, break it into smaller tasks, and master them one by one.

While some people might view this as incredibly stubborn at first, it’s really the way that she comes to terms with achieving milestones, and when I step back at the end of the process and think about how she got to the accomplishment, her technique is rather amazing.  When I sat there, taking in that realization, I wanted to gather her up in my arms and smother her with my overwhelming love.  She obliged for a moment, letting me squeeze her for a second before kissing my cheek and whispering, “Not now Mommy, I’m working on it.”

My little E, you are always working on something, and that is one of the gazillion reasons that we love you so much.

 

* The irony being that the above image is, indeed, a photo taken with a phone app.  Oh well.

Little Things

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Nice, quiet walk today in the muggy sunshine of almost summer in Brooklyn.

Jammin’

Strawberry rhubarb confiture

Last night, much to my husband’s extreme excitement,* I decided to make some strawberry rhubarb jam. A few years ago, after a acquiring a larger-than-two-people-could-eat cache of apricots from our CSA, I make apricot jam. It was absolutely delicious but I never seemed to get back to preserving things – E came along and there just wasn’t enough time for me to dedicate to the process. So, the years passed and we just bought jam at the supermarket, and every so often I’d pause while eating my morning toast and think, “Gosh, it tastes so much better from scratch.”

The NYT ran a piece on canning last week and featured a recipe for strawberry rhubarb confiture. I’d read it just before going to the market and the recipe stuck in my brain – almost absentmindedly I grabbed a bunch of rhubarb and an extra pint or two of strawberries while shopping, and there they sat in the fridge until last night. Recognizing that it was all going to go bad if I didn’t do something with it, and quick, I rustled up some mason jars and a stock pot and got to work.

To be frank, I messed up nearly every step. While my husband is a by-the-book recipe follower, I tend to stray. I get a little distracted sometimes (forgot to cut up the strawberries and left them whole while macerating for, um, three hours before I remembered and went back to chop them) and impatient (after staring at the candy thermometer for 40 minutes and asking myself why the temp of the syrup was not going above 150, I finally just took the thermometer out and made my choices and timing based on how the boil and texture looked). When it was time to can the jam things looked a little more watery that I’d have liked, but it tasted good so I threw on the lids, boiled and left them to cool overnight.

The result? Not quite as congealed as true jam but not a syrup either. I think I shall call it “relaxed jam.” And golly, it tastes amazing – basically, like the insides of a strawberry rhubarb pie. I can’t help but think that I could perhaps halve the sugar next time, as it doesn’t need to be so sweet, but I’m not sure whether that would mess with the maceration process.

Regardless, YUM. I can’t wait to make more as the summer progresses, though I might need to do it when A is on business trips, while E and I have the hot house to ourselves. He can, of course, partake in the spoils when he gets home (and the house has cooled down).

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* Sarcasm in use – making preserves = lots of boiling water. It was rather warm and muggy last night, which meant that the kitchen was warmer than usual. I have the circulatory system of a lizard, so heat does not bother me much, which is quite the opposite of my dear husband.

Little Box: #7

Little Box: #6

Object: Echinoderm (?)

We try to get E to some body of water at least twice a month.  Our favorite spot is right here in Brooklyn – one of the few where we can allow her to get to the water’s edge and search for shells.  This weekend she came across this amidst a whole bunch of former crab and snail homes.  I think it’s some sort of echnioderm, though I’m not sure what kind and lack the vocabulary to properly search it.

In other news, E needs a bigger little box.